Recently I had found myself thinking about sorority girls. Specifically the girls who seem to be in College ONLY to have fun, who live in a world of boys, alcohol and drugs. They seem mostly interested in being junior level socialites, trying to stay on top of fashion and parties, but lacking in areas such as individuality and intelligence. I'm not painting with a broad brush here. I know plenty of girls that were in sororities and are not this girl, or who were this girl and then changed.
These particular girls have been told there whole life that they're beautiful, sexy, and hot. They dated whomever they wanted, and could have sex with just about anyone they wanted.
I wonder if these girls know that in two years, maybe less, they will be replaced by someone younger, sexier, dumber. Because they do not appear to. They cling to their vanity as their only line of defense . In fact the only way they won't be forgotten with the rest of her 'sisters' is that she actually finds a future with a motivated guy that some how doesn't see or doesn't care about her slutty shallowness. They are social climbers that must use their vagina's to do the climbing.
I do not know what led them to this miserable level of self-esteem, where their self worth is directly tied to who they have and who they currently are sleeping with. Where sleeping with the star football player is better than sleeping with with the star frat guy, that's better than sleeping with an upstart musician. It's bizarre (Not sure if that's the same for all the schools out there. Certainly at Harvard, maybe being in an awesome band is better than athlete, just saying at PSU pecking order certainly begins at football player).
Keep in mind I'm not referencing all sorority girls in this, but I am saying that is something that goes on. And maybe it is all fine. If you land a that guy that turns out to be a Pro Athlete, kudos. Just saying you got lucky, and it's probably not the best way to get into a relationship. Oh, and if you're banking on you being hot forever, just remember that youth is the easiest thing to replace. In just a couple years someone else is going to take your place as super hot bitch. Sorry, seems to be evolution. So when you don't have anything to give to a guy except being a slut ready to give it up, don't be surprised when your options start to dwindle.
The solution? Recognizing your own voice and trusting it. Be an individual worth knowing, defining yourself not by who you're with, but by yourself independent of others. If you are defining yourself as the 'girlfriend of 'insert star player's name' than you have have no real self identity. In short, get a personality. The vapid, brain dead slut gets old. (Eventually. You do great for rebounds though.)
*Disclaimer, This is both based on knowledge I've gotten first hand as well as friends within the Greek system. I'm not talking about any of my actual friends that are from sororities. We wouldn't be friends if you were the girl I just described.
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